08Their rights
A good name, and a known lineage.
Maintenance — food, clothing, shelter and medicine, until they can provide for themselves.
Teaching — their religion first, then what will let them stand on their own.
Justice between them — in gifts, in attention and in affection. “Fear Allah, and be just between your children.”
Mercy — “He who does not show mercy is not shown mercy.”
Not to be cursed, nor supplicated against in anger — an hour may fall in which such a prayer is answered.
Bukhārī, Muslim · ṣaḥīḥ — the ḥadīth of an-Nu‘mān ibn Bashīrـؓ; Muslim · ṣaḥīḥ
Du‘ā for offspring
رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِنْ لَدُنْكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً، إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاءِ
Rabbi hab lī min ladunka dhurriyyatan ṭayyibah, innaka samī‘ud-du‘ā’
My Lord, grant me from Yourself a goodly offspring; indeed You hear all supplication.
Q 3:38
When a person dies, their deeds end but for three — ongoing charity, knowledge benefited from, and a righteous child who prays for them.
Muslim · ṣaḥīḥ